Sex during pregnancy…..You know that it’s safe to have sex but you just don’t feel sexy!

When you become pregnant your body will experience many changes, not only with your body changing shape but your hormones will be fluctuating too!

During your first trimester you may just be feeling too exhausted to think about anything other than sleep, add to this the fact that you could be suffering from morning sickness and it’s not really surprising if you don’t feel very sexual.

The second trimester could have you feeling your best. Any nausea and vomiting you may have experienced should have disappeared and this is the stage where pregnant ladies are told they look glowing! Your hair should be shining and your nails looking their best!     

 The third trimester may have you feeling a little on the large side and your sexual positions will have to accommodate your growing bump!

• Spooning – you can lay on your side with your man behind you.

• Woman on top- if you are feeling up to it?

• On all fours- with your man entering from behind

As your baby bump grows avoid lying on your back during sex, your uterus could compress the veins in your abdomen causing you to feel sick or dizzy!Whatever position you try you must both feel comfortable, just experiment and enjoy each other’s bodies. If you are feeling unattractive, then talk to your partner. Tell you partner that you need more foreplay, or get him to indulge you in a relaxing bath followed by a gentle massage.Remember, although you may not be feeling very sexy, many men find that when their partner becomes pregnant it only enhances their sexual attraction towards them.